Funeral Photography and Video

Hot pink shoes for Mollie today. Every service is different, because every human is different. Sometimes the most unexpected moments make the most beautiful of memories. At the end of today`s service, an elderly family member got up and started dancing and singing along with Good Golly Miss Molly . She took my arm and we sang and danced together. These are the moments we live for. @sydney_funerals_co #Notallfuneralsareblack ...

Butterflies for Graham. At today`s burial of ashes, every family member released a butterfly. Most of them flew straight to his grave, and enjoyed the wildflowers his family had placed there. We could not have planned it better if we tried! ...

Daffodils for Carolyn who loved the colour yellow and her garden. We wore bright colours and florals and celebrated her with her favourite music, her most loved flowers and her closest family. This family were offered a celebrant by their funeral home , but found me on my website instead. They saw something in me that they thought Carolyn would like. I am so glad they did. These families that search and find me , show me the greatest honour. It is always my privelege to celebrate the ones that you love. ...

A candle lit here and others, lit, all over the world to connect us to each other in the same moment, regardless of the time zone. When there are many people watching from afar, it can really help them feel connected by asking them to "do something" to participate. This service with @sydney_funerals_co was created to give everyone several ways to participate. ...

On Sunday, we celebrated a very special man, by wearing his favourite colour- yellow, eating his favourite food- chocolate coated doughnuts and dancing to his favourite music- Mambo No.5 and the Nutbush. We even wore stickers with his face on them. A memorial service can be anything you want it to be. This one was a true celebration of life in bright, living colour. ...

Choosing the right music for a funeral or memorial service seems like such a daunting task. Should you stick to traditional funeral-ish music? The classics? Do you want it to be heart -wrenching or uplifting? Are you choosing the music that would have felt good to your loved one? Or what you like?
Over the next few weeks, I’ll be posting some suggestions, tips and some stories about music choices and how to incorporate music to its most meaningful effect.
Tip No.1
Where to use music in your service.
Let’s start at the beginning. Music sets the mood. Your first song gives everyone a chance to settle in and be ready for what can be a whirlwind hour of emotions. Choose something meaningful to the deceased. For an elderly person, I always suggest considering a piece of music from their heyday, from their youth. If they lived through the war, perhaps it’s a war tune. For somebody of immigrant background, a song from their place of birth may be appropriate, if they still have strong ties to the country of their birth. I’ve not yet met a Scottish family that could say no to bagpipes. For a dementia patient, definitely go back in time to the times they could still remember, or to a time of happiness in their life, as these will be the times we are celebrating. ...